I don’t know anything about feminism, but I think at least part of it is about being truly independent.
Physically, can you live on your own, pay your bills, take care of yourself? Emotionally, can you be alone and not be in search of a man, do you have your own self-worth and value without a partner, can you be content being single?
Edit: The original post had a weird misogynistic undertone. I’ve attempted to edit that out in an effort to focus on what I think was my actual point.